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Understanding Grief and Trauma


Grief and trauma might seem like heavy, confusing topics, but let's break them down in simpler terms. Grief isn't just feeling sad because you've lost someone. It's a deep emotional response that can impact your whole life, your thoughts, your behaviors, and how you see the world. Trauma, on the other hand, is a bit different. It's a response to a deeply distressing or disturbing event that overwhelms an individual's ability to cope, causing feelings of helplessness, diminishing their sense of self, and their ability to feel a full range of emotions and experiences. Both grief and trauma are part of the human experience, but they don't have to control your life. With the right support and understanding, people can navigate these feelings and work towards healing. Remember, it's okay to ask for help, and it's important to talk about what you're going through. This is where behavioral health support steps in, offering a guiding hand through the tough times, helping you understand and manage your grief and trauma.


When dealing with grief and trauma, reaching out for expert behavioral health support isn't just a good idea; it's crucial. Think of it this way: you wouldn't try to fix a broken leg without a doctor, right? The same goes for your mental health. Trained professionals can guide you through the complex emotions and challenges you're facing, offering tools and strategies that actually work. They understand the ins and outs of the human mind during stress and can provide a safe space for healing. Plus, they can spot signs of deeper issues like depression or PTSD, which can be hard to recognize on your own. Walking the path of recovery with someone who knows the way can make all the difference. So why go it alone? Seeking out expert support is a sign of strength and the first step towards healing.


Realizing you need help and deciding to seek support for grief and trauma are the first crucial steps toward healing. To start, it’s important to acknowledge your feelings rather than push them aside. It's okay not to be okay. Once you've accepted this, look for a therapist specialized in grief and trauma. You can do this by searching online directories or asking for recommendations from friends or healthcare providers. Make sure the therapist makes you feel comfortable and understood. Check their credentials and experience to ensure they're equipped to help with your specific needs. Next, prepare for your first session by thinking about what you want to get out of therapy. It might help to write down your feelings, symptoms, or any questions you have. Remember, therapy is a safe space, and it's okay to share as much or as little as you're comfortable with. Lastly, keep an open mind. Healing is a journey that requires patience and effort. You're making a brave decision by taking this step, so give yourself credit for that.


Eric Hinojosa, MA, LPC

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